Holding grudges and not forgiving will cause you to resist any and all forms of abundance. Take the time to forgive anyone and everyone for everything.
This means complete forgiveness – Letting go of it.
When someone says “I can forgive – but I won’t forget”, that means they are holding onto that situation. Complete forgiveness means letting go of it fully.
Sure, you may remember what happened. But verbally announcing that you “won’t forget” tells the universe that you WANT that situation. Thus, the universe answers in kind, bringing you more situations like it.